Pray for his self-control...
Like a city whose walls are broken down is a man who lacks self-control (Proverbs 25:28), thus it is better for my husband to be a patient person, one who rules his spirit, than a warrior, one with self-control rather than one who charges in uncontrolled and takes a city (Proverbs 16:32). So I pray Lord for my husbands unwavering self-control. I pray Lord my husband desires nobility and therefore is above reproach, faithful unto me, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, and with a teachable spirit doing so in a manner worthy of full respect (1 Timothy 3:2-4). I pray my husband becomes an A+ student in the school of self-control, listening with the intention of being taught. Teach my husband Your way, Lord, that he may rely on your faithfulness; give him an undivided heart, that he may fear your name (Psalm 86:11).
I pray, O Lord, that you fill my husband with Your Spirit, the Spirit of God that does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline (2 Timothy 1:7) to walk by the Spirit, and not gratify the desires of the flesh, nor do whatever he wants (Galatians 5:16-17) but instead, I pray, he lives by the Spirit bearing such fruit as love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control, for against such things there is no law (Galatians 5:22-23).
Father God, as my husband is the head of our marriage and our home, I pray he would be worthy of that which You have called him. Remove any traits that are overbearing or quick tempered, may he not be given to drunkenness, violence or pursue dishonest gain. Instead, I pray, he is hospitable, one who loves what is good, who is self-controlled, upright, holy and disciplined, trusting Your Word, encouraging others with sound doctrine and refuting those who oppose it (Titus 1: 6-9).
Lord, I pray my husband is a child of the light and a child of the day. May he not be as some who are spiritually asleep, but belonging to the day; may he be sober-minded, alert and self-controlled, putting on faith and love as a breastplate, and the hope of salvation as a helmet (1 Thessalonians 5:5-8).
I pray he makes every effort to add to his faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love. For if my husband possesses these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep him from being ineffective and unproductive in the knowledge of You, O Lord - Jesus Christ (2 Peter 1:5-8). I pray his self-control would grow immeasurably as he pays attention to whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, and whatever is admirable (Philippians 4:8). In the mighty Name of Jesus. Amen.