Prayers for his gentleness...
Founded on strength and prompted by love may my husband seek the sensitive disposition and kindness of behavior which is gentleness - as that of Christ who came gentle and humble in heart (Matthew 11:29).
Freedom in Christ can be found living in the Spirit; a bearer of fruit will one live in gentleness (Galatians 5:22-23). I pray Lord for my husband to be a gentle giant; a man who pursues righteousness, pursues godliness, faith and love, endures, and pursues gentleness (1 Timothy 6:11). May his gentleness be evident to everyone he comes in contact with so that the Lord may be seen in him (Philippians 4:5).
You have given my husband the shield of Your salvation and Your right hand supports him; may it be Your gentleness in him that makes him great in Your sight, O Lord (Psalm 18:35).
As a chosen man of God, holy and dearly loved, clothe him in such things as compassion, kindness, humility, patience and gentleness (Colossians 3:12).
In his heart may he revere Christ as Lord. May he always be prepared to give an answer to anyone who asks to give a reason for his hope and where it is found, but, that he may do so with gentleness and respect (1 Peter 3:15).
Thank you Lord for the times my husband has been the bearer of a gentle answer (to my sometimes harsh words) because his gentle words yield great power and turns away my wrath (Proverbs 15:1) and may he always gently speak the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15).
In Jesus' Name.